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A Complete Guide to Rimming: Tips, Techniques, and What to Know Before You Try
BUTT STUFF HAS officially hit the mainstream. And we’re not just talking about straight-up anal intercourse, either; butt plugs, beads, and other sex toys have introduced new ways to experiment with the back door.
But if you’re just now revealing anal play, might we suggest rimming? There’s no risk of potential pain or discomfort here since penetration isn’t required. Some might even say it’s the new oral.
What is rimming?
Also commonly referred to as a rim job, analingus, tossing salad, eating the booty fancy groceries, butt munching, or eating ass—rimming is basically using your tongue and lips to pleasure your partner’s anus. According to Kristie Overstreet, PhD, a psychotherapist and clinical sexologist, the term stems from the fact that the outer edges of the anus—AKA the rim—are often a focus area for stimulation. But the sky’s the limit here, friends: Rimming can also involve swirling your tongue directly on the anus, penetrating it, or just kissing and licking around it.
As for why anyone might want to strive rimming—aside from the sheer novelty of it, of course—your butt is packe
The gentleman’s instruction to rimming (a posh term for eating ass)
By Emen8, updated 4 months ago in Sex and dating / Sex
Long considered borderline fetish behaviour, eating ass is now firmly in the mainstream. What a time for homosexual men to be alive!
For guys who are into guys, rimming (otherwise famous as ‘eating ass’) is often a big part of foreplay. Tactile, sensual and a bit taboo, it’s one of the hottest ways to scout and stimulate a guy’s most intimate areas. Whether it’s just some not heavy play or a warm up for a longer, deeper session, eating his ass is a vital skill in your sexual arsenal (pun intended).
And enjoy any skill, your rimming prowess can benefit from a little technical guidance: from preparation to best rimming positions. Read on for our gentleman’s mentor to rimming, and you’ll be eating him out of house and house in no hour. Bon appétit!
How act you prepare your ass for rimming?
Let’s get this out of the way first: licking someone’s hole – aka, eating it out – is never guaranteed to be sanitary.
That said, you should both create every effort to be as tidy as possible. If you’re going to receive a rimjob, make sure you
A little while ago, I hooked up with someone I hadn’t seen in over five years. When we’d last met, I was still wet behind the ears when it came to pleasing a man, so we pretty much made out and jumped directly into anal.
But this time, I was ready.
After the usual making out and other vanilla stuff, we moved on to foreplay. I flipped him over and slowly worked my way down. But he didn’t anticipate what came next. In no time, my face was dug deep between his buttcheeks, rimming his anus to glory. “When did you pick that up?” he asked between perplexed moans. “Well, I’ve been working learning,” I said shamelessly.
I cherish eating ass. If I was on death row, and they asked me what my last meal preference would be, I’d say a nice plump ass to make my last moments tolerable.
It wasn’t always this way, but my initial apprehension thankfully paved the way for curiosity. After watching burly men ingest each other’s hairy butts out in porn, I started practising it with consenting partners. Over time, I have mastered the art of anilingus.
And because we know most gay men are already adept at being and eating assholes, this time around, I’d like to help my straight brethren out. As t
Everything You Need to Know About Rimming (Analingus)
Let’s face it: B-town isn’t the first destination on everyone’s list of body parts to take a tongue to.
Communication and consent are key, so you’ll wish to have an open and straightforward talk with your partner to be sure you’re both onboard.
If you’re bringing it up
First, retain that sex is a sensitive and even taboo topic for many.
Upbringing, religious beliefs, and even societal misconceptions can play a role in your partner’s attitude towards anal play.
Listen to their concerns and avoid creature dismissive of them, even if you don’t agree. Be prepared to approve their response, even if it’s not the one you were hoping for.
If they’re bringing it up
If the tables are turned and you’re the one being asked to consider rimming, you’ll want to engage by the identical rules and listen them out.
Avoid being judgmental. You should be capable to speak to each other in a way that’s rational, comfortable, and fosters trust.
The bottom lineConsent is a must. No one should ever be pressured into doing anything they don’t want to act. If either of you isn’t fully onboard, then approve to table the discussion for another t